How to Partner with Your Child's Teacher

Hillary Clinton once said that "it takes a village" to raise a child in today's world. I don't know about an entire village, but enlisting the help of your child's school teachers is certainly an ideal way for your child to become a productive human being with manners and respect for others. The best way to involve the teachers, though, is to become partners with them. This means that you both have a mutual respect for each other for the sake of your child. Consider these tips to build a strong relationship with your child's teacher so they can be a better student and become a lifelong learner.

1. Attend the meetings - The best way to become a partner with your child's school teachers is to attend the parent/teacher meetings that are held. Most schools do this when they hand out report cards so teachers can discuss with their parents any problems the student is having. Other schools have an "open house" before school begins so parents can get acquainted with their child's teachers. Take every opportunity to meet with the teachers. Your child and the teachers both will appreciate the active role you're trying to take in their education.
   
   
2. Pay attention to comments and grades - Many times, teachers will make comments on tests and grades for students to ponder. But dads should also ponder these things. Ask your child to see their tests and papers when they get them back. Look for comments that might help you guide your child's efforts next time.
   
   
3. Don't be accusatory toward teachers - The overwhelming majority of teachers are simply trying to give your child the best education possible. They want to push them to reach their full potential and expand their academic horizons. Fortunately, they've had training to help them create a classroom environment in which this can happen. You might not agree with all of their methods, but be sure to respect them and allow them do their job. Remember, most teachers have about 100 students between several classes for which they are responsible. It's impossible for them to take the ideas from every student's parent and implement them into the lessons.
   
   
4. Schedule meetings with your child's teachers - You might think that teachers don't want to meet with parents, but nothing is further from the truth. However, most teachers do hate meeting with disgruntled parents who are only trying to undermine their abilities. Be sure to be positive when you meet with their teachers. If you have concerns, discuss them in a calm and rational manner. You'll undoubtedly make more progress that way.
   
   
5. Have open lines of communication - Allow your child's teachers to contact you when concerns arise. If nothing else, give them your email so they can communicate directly with you about your child's behavior or any other problems that occur. The more you communicate with your child's teacher, the more involved you can be with their education and academic success.
   
   
6. Be a "Nosey Ned" - When you meet with your child's teacher, don't be afraid to ask questions. The teacher will likely have some issues they want to discuss with you, but they enjoy answering questions and helping you understand anything you need to know. Write down your questions before meeting with their teacher so you don't forget.
   
   
7. Don't waste the teacher's time - This is especially important during parent/teacher conferences. They have dozens of parents to meet with and only a short time with each one. If you feel you need to discuss something lengthy with a particular teacher, make an appointment. Also, be sure to keep your conversations succinct. Most teachers work several hours each night grading papers, creating lesson plans and other duties. Have respect for their valuable time by not bothering them with every little thing that pops into your head.

It's important to remember that your child's education is a joint effort. Teachers spend the most time with your children during the day, but you spend time with them at night. Your home life can impact how well they do in school, too. You can become partners with your child's teacher by helping your student excel and behave in class. Become involved in their life and education and their teachers will love you for it.