by Phil Stott
About a month ago, my brother-in-law sent me a video of his
four-year-old son's first touchdown in a flag football game. It's remarkable in
several ways: first, that my nephew seems to understand the purpose of the game
at such a young age-when he gets the ball in his own half of the field his
first instinct is to head for the opposition end zone. Second: he understood
that once he crossed the end zone line, he could stop running. And, third, he
threw a proper football pass to the referee when returning the ball. A couple
of weeks later, as if to prove it was no fluke, he did it again, and my
brother-in-law again captured the evidence on video. Clearly he's a boy who's
going to grow up loving his sport, and perhaps even has a natural aptitude for
it.
All well and good, I thought. As someone who loves sport
myself (albeit the other kind of "football"), I can remember the
point in my childhood where I became infatuated with it-and it's lasted to this
day. Becoming obsessed by a sport is a pleasure that, while not unique to boys,
certainly seems to be more common among them-at least in my experience. Seeing
that bloom in my nephew is a heart-warming thing, and I was happy both for him
and his Dad, who is perhaps the quintessential jock-one that, to be honest, I
don't know would have been able to relate to a son that didn't play sports.
My happiness for them both lasted approximately a week-right
up until I read this
disturbing piece on pro football in the New
Yorker. While the premise of the piece is to present a parallel between
football and dogfighting-a case that rests on a link between
"gameness" in fighting dogs that keep coming back for more to please
their owners and the culture in football of playing through pain, even to the
detriment of your long-term wellbeing-the most disturbing evidence it offers is
on the prevalence of serious brain injuries among ex football players.
Sure, the piece mainly details autopsy results of guys who
have made the pros, therefore subjecting themselves to many more hits to the
head-and at greater speeds from bigger guys-than someone who only plays through
high school, but the evidence is frightening nonetheless. Guys in their forties
showing symptoms of Alzheimer's disease normally seen only in the very elderly-the
likely cause: brain damage from too many hits. The brain of an eighteen
year-old who had "been playing football for a couple of years" with
the kind of damage not normally seen in someone at 50, much less his own age.
There's obviously a long way between a fledgling love affair
with flag football and taking recurring hits with the force of a car crash, but
nonetheless the article left me concerned about my nephew. After all, I became
obsessed with soccer at a very young age, and am still playing the game over a
quarter of a century later (and, yes, typing that does make me feel very, very
old)-who's to say he's not going to do the same with football? Even if he
doesn't, even if he only plays until the end of high school, the evidence in
the New Yorker piece suggests he's
still got a better than average chance of sustaining some sort of damage to his
brain from all the collisions.
Given all of that, then, it makes me wonder: is there anyone
out there who's happy that their
kid's playing football? And if so, why?
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Re: Is football safe for kids?
I would be happy that my kid is playing football, or engaged in any other sport in a truly passionate way, even at a young age. It builds confidence, self-esteem and encourages learning of many other healthy skills- beyond just the gross/fine motor skills. It teaches social skills, following of rules and regulations, just to name a few things. As for sports-based injuries, I would think the appropriate equipment and the appropriate size is very important and goes a long way to prevent injury. Things easily taken for granted could be the size of the sports shoes for instance, when the child outgrows his current shoes and needs a pair of Large Size Shoes, do ensure that he gets that etc.
Re: Is football safe for kids?
I would be happy that my kid is playing football, or engaged in any other sport in a truly passionate way, even at a young age. It builds confidence, self-esteem and encourages learning of many other healthy skills- beyond just the gross/fine motor skills. It teaches social skills, following of rules and regulations, just to name a few things. As for sports-based injuries, I would think the appropriate equipment and the appropriate size is very important and goes a long way to prevent injury. Things easily taken for granted could be the size of the sports shoes for instance, when the child outgrows his current shoes and needs a pair of Large Size Shoes, do ensure that he gets that etc.
Re: Is football safe for kids?
I would be happy that my kid is playing football, or engaged in any other sport in a truly passionate way, even at a young age. It builds confidence, self-esteem and encourages learning of many other healthy skills- beyond just the gross/fine motor skills. It teaches social skills, following of rules and regulations, just to name a few things. As for sports-based injuries, I would think the appropriate equipment and the appropriate size is very important and goes a long way to prevent injury. Things easily taken for granted could be the size of the sports shoes for instance, when the child outgrows his current shoes and needs a pair of Large Size Shoes, do ensure that he gets that etc.
All contact sports have a degree of risk
All contact sports have a degree of risk in them. However, if they start young and learn to protect themselves and at the same time practice the right methods of playing, they can reduce the risk of sustaining long term injuries. I have seen people injuring themselves while practising Pitching Drills alone, so there is no foolproof “safe” sport.
All contact sports have a degree of risk
All contact sports have a degree of risk in them. However, if they start young and learn to protect themselves and at the same time practice the right methods of playing, they can reduce the risk of sustaining long term injuries. I have seen people injuring themselves while practising Pitching Drills alone, so there is no foolproof “safe” sport.
Re: Is football safe for kids?
I live in a liberal urban environment in the Northwest, where parents in our demographic tend to be somewhat paranoid about safety. But my husband and I have decided that our children deserve to grow up without us hovering over their every move. Both our boys, ages 7 and 10, will play football this season on a community league. They are playing because they love the sport and begged us to let them try it. We feel that allowing kids to explore their interests and loves first-hand is a very important part of responsible parenting, and we don't feel that the risks of playing on a well-coached football team outweigh the benefits of following a passion. While I respect that other parents have different perspectives, I admit I am weary of being asked if my kids playing football is really OK with me. There are many dangers in life, and they aren't limited to high-contact sports like football. Downhill skiing is very popular here, and also potentially very dangerous, but everyone I know lets their kids do it. Because they know and trust their kids' skills. We hope to support a successful and safe football season in the same way.
Re: Is football safe for kids?
Anything you do in life has risks. There are risks in after-school activities with lots of kids playing on the playground and kids get hurt just by playing.
Re: Is football safe for kids?
I played football from grade school through high school. Sadly not many colleges are interested in a 5'10" defensive end. Actually I am not worried about brain damage for my child so much. Kids have a better chance of winning the lottery than making it as far as the pros and developing those kinds of injuries from repeated trauma.
What is far more common is improper tackling and blocking skills being taught and in a instant your perfectly healthy child is now going to spend the rest of his of her life in a wheel chair. Too many kids put their head down and go crashing head long into a ball carrier or defender. The force from a blow with a child's head down will shatter their neck. Simple remedy for this is to just teach them to keep their head up and use the body's mechanics to keep from getting a life changing injury. When old enough begin proper strength training and keeping away from the steroids is the next most dangerous issue to deal with.
Playing ball is some of the est memories of my life and I wouldn't want to rob my child of that. The best I can do is teach what I know, keep an open line of communication with the coach to make sure my kid isn't heading down a path where they are going to hurt themselves, and try to help keep it fun.
Re: Is football safe for kids?
I played football through college and am still a huge fan. I have often dreamed about my son (currently 6) also playing. But this article also has me thinking and I wrote about it at http://www.theuncooldad.com/sports/football-and-brain-injuries-do-i-let-...
I don't have any good answers as for what decisions we'll make in the future, but of course I would never put my son in enough danger to give him brain damage.
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