One of my little girls is the same way. She is the 3rd out of five little girls. When she is home she won't help anybody with anything. Her attention is always caught by something else and she forgets things. Me and my wife thought that we would have trouble with her when it came to school. Imagine our surprise when we checked with her teachers and they said that she is a perfect angel. she listens to the teacher, cleans up her and others messes, and doesn't even complain when it's nap time. I don't understand how she could be like night and day.