marriage and family

I can’t tell you how great it is to be home with my kids. I am there when they wake up, there when they go to sleep and there to help with meals, bedtime, playtime, and every other time of which I can think.

For centuries, a husband and father's job has remained essentially the same - it is his duty to leave the family, hunt, and return with sustenance. Although we now bring home money rather than venison, men are still what they always have been: hunters and gatherers.

Trying to do a juggling act between being a dad and maintaining a successful career can turn your home life into a three-ring circus. On the one hand, you want to be a good father and spend as much time with your children as you can. On the other hand, you have responsibilities at work and you want to continue to excel at your job to make a great living for your family.

If you've ever had an argument with your child, you've probably experienced the frustration of trying to understand their logic. Some children, for instance, think you can just write a check for something regardless of the price. Why not? After all, checks are an endless supply of money. And with some stubborn children, everything can be a fight if you're not careful.

Today's the day. The doctor has signed the release form, your wife is in the wheelchair, and you've got your brand new baby in the crook of your arm. You're taking your family home. Let the fun begin.

As you may have already realized, you didn't just marry your wife on your wedding day. You also married her entire family, as strange, mean, intrusive, snide, disapproving or lax as they may be. You are now forever linked to them, whether you like it or not.

Despite the fact that getting married and having children are two of the most blessed and life-altering events that happen to most men, we still root for the single guys. Sure, you love your wife and you don't know what you'd do without her. You'd also be devastated if your kids up and disappeared. But admit it: you love to hear wining-and-dining stories from your single buddies, and you'd implore them at every opportunity to stay single.

Many dads look forward to having "Family Time" with their wives and children. With the many demands throughout the week and the busy lifestyle that many families lead today, sitting down and having quality time with family helps dads slow down and enjoy their home life. But do you actually know how to maximize the effects of "Family Time"?